I’ve seen or heard this question posted in many different ways throughout the years, the gist of it being that one needs to make a fundamental decision between enjoying their life or saving for the future. I’ve heard the argument that you must “live” for today because you could be hit by a bus tomorrow. Young people have screamed YOYO! (Did I just coin that?), as in, “You’re Only Young Once”. They maintain that they must spend and “live” for today while they are young enough to enjoy it. But I don’t see it as a black and white, either/or situation: Save OR have fun. I believe that if you are wise with your money you can do both. Saving your money does not mean that you have to be a miserly scrooge sitting in your lonely attic counting your money and never having any fun. In fact, with a little planning and wise money management you can easily have a very pleasurable life and also save for your future at the same time. The one equation that people need to let go of is “Spending Money = Fun.” There may be some correlation to that sometimes, but it is certainly not a given. You can spend lots of money on something and have a terrible time, and even more importantly it is very possible to have a great time spending no money at all. I’m sure you can think of several examples of both these facts in your own life. Let’s start with the young (my newly coined YOYO philosophy). Yes, they can certainly save and also have fun. First of all, they have one huge advantage in their favor… the magic of compound interest. The fact is if you start saving (investing) early you will only need to save a fraction of your own money in order to build up a very tidy nest egg for retirement. Most of the money in your IRA at retirement will be growth on the returns you accrued through the years (not the money you actually put in). Pretty neat trick, huh? With a little prioritizing and forethought young folks can also be saving for their other more near-future needs/wants (a car, a house, a wedding, et.) by putting those savings on automatic pilot and just living on what’s left. The prioritizing comes in as you make the conscious decision to forego (instant pleasure X) which is not really adding a great deal of joy to your life in order to save up for that something that will bring you great pleasure indeed. The one joy that seems to be mentioned a lot is traveling. And here is where the young have another distinct advantage. They can travel for practically nothing, staying in youth hostels, or other low cost accommodations. There are even many temporary internship/job opportunities overseas that can allow them to see the world while sometimes even making a little money. The possibilities of low-cost travel are only limited by the imagination for the young (or young at heart). Google “traveling on next to nothing” and see what you come up with. I read a great memoir on the subject a while back called “No Baggage – A Minimalist Tale of Love and Wandering” by Clara Bensen. What about if you are not young? I see people of all ages squandering their money on daily instant gratification pleasures without even realizing that they are doing it. Once, when I was telling some friends about a trip to Singapore that I had just returned from, somebody asked me “I don’t understand. You can’t afford cable TV, but you can afford a trip to Singapore?” My answer to that is you can afford anything (within reason, of course), but you can’t afford everything. I chose to forgo all those channels at $150/month in order to save my money for something better. I even found a way to get TV for free (an old fashioned roof antenna). I also put my frugal skills to use to make the trip possible without breaking the piggybank. If fun is your priority, then go ahead and have it! Have as much as you want. Live! Take advantage of all that free fun that is out there for the taking. If there is some kind of fun that you must have money for, then just look at your spending habits and give something up that does not bring as much joy and save up for what you want. I see absolutely no reason why you can’t do both. Save and have fun! After all, you only live once! Wishing you a happy life today and a bright future tomorrow!
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Do you need a vacation? And can you afford one? Well those are two very different questions. The answer to question one? Hmmm . . . need? I would say in Maslow’s hierarchy of needs it would be pretty low down on the list. But do you want a vacation? Well, that’s an entirely different question! As for the second question, the simple answer is if you have the money to pay for it upfront (and are not taking this money from a more pressing need), then you can afford it. If you need to finance the cost, then no, you cannot afford it. So what can you do to make it more affordable? Ahhh… well that’s where I come in! A thoughtfully planned out vacation does not have to break the piggy bank. If you are aware of your budget up front, which you are, since you have put the money aside for it, there are many tricks and tips you can use to keep it affordable. If you are going to whip out the plastic to book it and then again all through the trip you can easily lose track of how much your spending is racking up to. Once the vacation is over, is that one week of relaxation worth the stress of having to pay it off until the next round of big spending at the holidays? So, that said, you will start by planning a vacation that you can realistically afford. The purpose of vacation time is to relax and enjoy yourself. Personally I find that life is more relaxing and enjoyable when I staying in control of my expenses and living below my means. I think you will too. Here are some step by step tips to make any vacation more enjoyable and affordable, starting with planning and throughout the days of your trip. ,Planning: Of course the first step is to be realistic about what kind of vacation you can afford on your budget. If you have $2,000 to spend, you are not going on a six week trip around the world. But can you do something fun on a smaller budget? Absolutely!! Take a little time to think about your priorities? What is the best thing about vacation time for you? Sightseeing? Beach time? Activities? Relaxation? Time with the kids? You may not be able to do everything, but you should be able to hit a few of your priority choices. Half the fun of a vacation is actually in the planning stages. Talk about your vacation dreams with the people you will be vacationing with. Have fun with it! Which of them might you be able to actuate on your next vacation? While you’re at it, daydream about future vacations. There is great pleasure to be had in just the dreaming alone! Accommodations: The time to book is as early as possible, again keeping your budget in mind. If you can’t afford a motel, camping might be the way to go. If you can’t afford to travel, keep it close to home. See if you can lock in a good deal as early as the summer before. Keep your eye out for specials. There are so many travel and discount websites now, you just have to go to your favorites and watch for them. If it is feasible, try to find something with a kitchen to save on meal expenses. Or you can try a house swap, or hostel. Don’t forget to check out Airbnb for some offbeat affordable options. If you are very flexible about where and when you go (retirees for instance) here is where you may be able to snag some great last-minute deals if you keep watching! Transportation: Again, keeping the budget in mind. If money is tight this is not the year to be flying off somewhere. Keep it closer to home. If you have a little more leeway, then maybe this year you can take it further afield. Don’t feel you need to fly away to get away. Remember, some people are flying to wherever you live to “get away.” Again, starting at least 6 months out, keep your eye on the flights. When you see a good deal, book it. Don’t wait to see if there are last-minute specials. The airlines don’t really do that anymore and you may very well end up paying more for a last-minute flight. There are also apps and websites that will alert you to a drop in price, and some airlines will send you a refund for the difference. You can save some money by flying on any day except Friday or Sunday, the two most expensive days to fly. And also by booking at less than optimal times and flights that have layovers. Remember to watch for add-on expenses (checking in luggage, etc.) The best thing to do is learn to pack very light. One carry-on bag and you’re done. I’ve done this on several two week trips with no problem whatsoever. You don’t need a lot! You can wear things over and over with no dire consequences. If you are driving, remember to factor gas prices into your budget, also tolls and parking expenses. If you are renting a vehicle get the smallest (cheapest) vehicle you can make do with (it will also be more fuel efficient). It may be a good idea to just go with mass transit at your destination if you can. Meals: Here, as I have alluded to earlier, the more you can avoid eating out the better. It’s great to have a place with a kitchen. But even if you don’t, always bring a cooler to keep stocked on meal options. Try to get a room that includes free breakfast. Eat up on that!! This way a light lunch will do. Keep things in your room for that. Sandwich bread, peanut butter (or other “fillings”), fruit, yogurt, cheese, crackers, nuts, etc. Don’t forget to bring your water bottle. Now you can eat in your room or take your lunch out on the road for a picnic wherever you go for the day. Dinner does not have to be a fancy affair every night. A quick deli meal or some tacos will do. Also remember to share meals if you go somewhere with big servings (or bring a “doggie bag” home for the next night’s dinner). And for the adults, try not to go out for “drinks” every night. You can have “cocktail hour” on your balcony sometimes, with a bottle of wine (or cocktail ingredients) brought from home (or purchased locally) Activities: These can run the gamut, from those pricey theme park vacations or expensive activities to a (free) hike in the woods or making s’mores around the campfire. You should “limit” yourself to what your budget dictates. Why do I put limit in quotations? Because there are so many beautiful experiences you can have for free that I hardly think this is a limiting factor. It fact I might argue here that the best things in life are truly free! Get the local papers and look up free events in the area. Bring along (or rent) bikes, boats, balls, rackets, etc., etc. Bring board games for those rainy days. The things that bring joy to you and your family are the fun and pleasure of spending time together. You cannot buy relaxation or happiness. If you can’t afford a vacation, you can’t afford a vacation, but you can still enjoy yourself and share good times and laughter with your family and friends. And whatever your vacation budget is you can still have a quality vacation and make memories to last a lifetime for you and your family. It’s all up to you!
I have talked a lot in these blogs about the what’s and how’s of scrimping and saving for a “rainy day” but today I’d like to talk about the why. That glorious goal! In order to keep your spending under control and not keep living for that constant instant gratification it’s important to keep sight of the dream. What kind of a vision do you have? What would you do if you had money? When you have your ideal future visualized, it’s much easier to give up all those pricey extravagances that you feel you must treat yourself to regularly. Be specific, really immerse yourself in the dream. If you have a life partner have fun dreaming together. It makes for fun dinnertime or cocktail hour conversation. Would you buy a nice house somewhere? On the beach? In the mountains? Go on an adventure? Buy a motor home and tour the country? Travel to other parts of the world? Treat your family (and future grandkids) to some fun vacations? Save photo’s that you would like your life to look like someday. Just think how nice it will be to be able to look forward to your retirement years rather than start panicking as the time approaches, wondering how you will live when the paychecks stop coming. It will be such a wonderful feeling to look forward to those golden years knowing that you have enough to live on and then some. Think how nice it would be to have enough money put aside so that you never have to work again. If you do work it will be on your own terms at something you enjoy doing. It really isn’t that hard. The earlier you start, of course, the easier it will be. But even if you didn’t start early you can start right now and you will be amazed at how quickly the money can add up when you are putting it away at a steady automatic rate and investing it for that compounding interest.
So, go ahead and dream! Dreams can and do become reality! |
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